This is written by Albert Einstein. Read it carefully and try to reflect.
Sometimes in our relentless effort to find the person we love, we fail to
recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many
beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by
our own selfish concerns.
Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words, for you will find
rewarding happinesss not with man you love but the man who loves you more.
The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance far enough to
allow the person to grow but never too far to feel the love within your
being.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it only means
that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him
to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but is
also setting yourself free from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that
keep in your heart.
Do not let the bitterness rare you away your strength and weaken your
faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let yourself
grow with wisdom in bearing it. You may find peace in loving someone from a
distance not expecting something in return. But be careful, for this can
sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all
survive with just beautiful memories of the past, but real peace and
happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.
There will come a time in our life when we chance upon someone so nice and
beautiful and we just find ourselves so intensely attracted to that
person. This feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives and eventually
consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to
realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship.
We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the
endour efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for
ourselves.
You don't have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how
to accept the evrdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself.
Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to
someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible
and let your mind speak for itself.
Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember
that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming
tomorrow. If you lose love that doesn't mean you failed in love. Cry if you have to,
but make it sure that tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the
past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way
back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and
last a lifetime.
There are two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a
miracle. The other is though everything is a miracle.
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"Make your own destiny,
Don't wait for it to come to you,
Life is not a rehearsal!"
Posted at 04:21 am by dons
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wat in the world you would feel if you got to make a post in this blog.. nyeh! nung koneksyon nun dun..haha kasama paLa sa sinasabi nila yun Lugar na yon..kala ko inde! di naman kasi sila masyadong detailed..bwahaha! ano na? kanina, pag-alis ko ng bahay sabi ng nanay ko, "anak,mag-aral ka nga! ba't ganyan kulay ng kuko mo?" heheh, wala lang.. nakita ko yun idoL ko kanina sa labas ng skul, sa cr., sa lobby, sa may locker, sa tabi ng puno sa jeep,..at sa kung saan saang lugar pa..basta pag nakita ko na siya masaya na ko. kuntento na ko sa ganun.. makita ko sya.. makita ko syang malungkot, masaya, badtrip, tumatawang malakas, kumakanta kahit panget boses nya, nagsasalita ng mabilis, laging late sa klase, laging nagpapatawa, tumatalon sa hagdan, sumusulyap sa mga kasama nya, umaalis ng hindi nagpapaalam, dumadating ng hindi napapansin, nagmumura ng "shit! bat ang init!", pag sinasabi nya sa kasama nya na "bukasan mo nga yung aircon,blis!" astig! may tagabukas pa! lagi may alalay..haha. kilala ko nga yung alalay nya eh.. heheh. ano na? kwentuhan kita.. saan papunta ang usapan na 'to? sige, salita pa! kahit walang kwenta sinasabi mo makikinig pa rin ako sa'yo. sino ba may ari ng nawawalang libro na yan? bigay mo na sa guard bago ko kunin yan. ibibigay ko yan sa kapatid kong 2 yrs old para may magawa siya..kc madami sya alam kahit ganun lang sya.. madami talaga. lagi nya ko kinakausap, "ate,babay!", "ate, penge!", "ate!" ..ayun pa lang yun mga salitang nadidinig ko sa kanya. kc 2 yrs old pa lang sya. at hindi ko din sya masyado kinakausap kaya ganon. at hindi ko din maintindihan yung ibang sinasabi pa nya.. may nakasakay ako sa jeep kanina, mukang ogag! paabot nga po ng sukli ko! kala mo may taga-abot ng sukli ako..hndi naman ah! pede naman un iaabot ng isa mong katabi mas malapit kesa sa ken..badtrip ka! siniko mo pa ko!!hha, hinde ok lang..sana lagi ako may makasakay na tulad mo!(wahaha!) sana walang galit saken sa labas, baka paglabas ko bigla nya ko batukan sa batok at apakan sa paa. heheh, babay! ^_^
ANG TIBAY MO ..BLOG KO TO EH NOH!!!--cla
sorry may natanggap kc ako invitation eh..
sorry talaga.
pano ba burahin 'to?
bobo kc ko eh,
maaari mo ba 'to burahin para sa 'kin?
kung gusto mo, burahin mo na din ako sa mundo.
parang awa mo na, nakikiusap ako..
sorry talaga.. --juviL
HINDE OK LANG...POST KA LANG KUNG GSTO MO. JOKE LANG YUN! -CLA
Posted at 02:52 am by juviL
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i hAve decided to make another blog again.. hehe... my previous dairies gave me headaches and all that.. so how do you like it..ur comments are very much welcome and would be well appreciated!!! ÇÎÀÒ!!!
Posted at 08:48 pm by aziralc
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